"Belonging"

​"I was so shocked to learn at the reasearch
that the opposite of belonging is fitting in
because fitting in is assessing a group of people
and thinking;

Who do I need to be?
What do I need to say?
What do I need to wear?
how do I need to act?

and changing who you are
and true belonging never asks us to change who we are
it demands that we BE who we are."

Brene Brown